The small group that met on a century-old wooden boat in Sausalito harbor was there to talk. Organizer Brian Barth set up “The Depolarization Dialogues” earlier this year, in an effort to turn down the volume on political rhetoric and move towards national unity, one conversation at a time.
The meetups, which are free, are for those “who may be struggling with the weight of toxic politics,” Barth says, “or have had it disrupt their lives.” The group is generally an even mix — men and women, Republicans and Democrats, from all over the Bay Area. The key? “We want people who have a capacity for conversation,” Barth says.
The monthly meetings have a few ground rules: questions are posed by the moderator, everyone gets a chance to talk and everyone listens to understand, rather than rebut. At the end of each meeting, the goal is for participants to feel heard. “It’s the not-so-secret sauce,” says Barth. Not a single person had their phone out during the event, a notable success for in-person connection.
For more information about The Depolarization Dialogues or to join a future meetup, look for details at brianjbarth.com.
Get Active
Here are three other groups you can consider participating in.
Come to the Table Marin
Gathers to bridge gaps between Marin City and the rest of the county. Meetings include dinner and a conversation with 25 Marin City residents and 25 residents from other parts of Marin, followed by a Community Forum where experts weigh in on various community-centered issues.
The second Saturday of each month.
Marin Women’s Political Action Committee
Works to increase women’s political participation and identify and support pro-choice candidates. Events throughout the year include everything from Endorsement Nights and trainings to more social gatherings like a silent disco or an annual holiday event.
Various meeting times.
Marin Coalition
Connects Marin residents with local leaders, experts and decision-makers. Discussions cover topics such as housing, environment, education and politics, plus many more.
The second Thursday of each month.
